The Situationship


Lets talk about “Situationships”. In case your not sure what a situationship is here you go, according to google:

  1. a romantic or sexual relationship that is not considered to be formal or established.
    “I’m trying to turn our situationship into something more serious.

Sadly, this trend is a new normal. Many women find themselves in this form because they feel that this is as good as it’s going to get. You meet a guy, he wines and dines you, takes you on exotic trips, and you have amazing times together. Yes, you may be in agreeance with the matter at hand but deep down you want to take it to the next level. You’re hoping that going along with this situationship, he’ll see that you’re “the one” and pack up his playboy life to be exclusive with you…only, that doesn’t happen.  He doesn’t claim you and continues with his lifestyle.

In return, we women continue to settle and try to hide the fact that we’re hurting, that we’re broken. We act tough like we’re alright with this path, and maybe you are for the time being but believe us, eventually, everything becomes so repetitive that it doesn’t excite you anymore. The only thing that would light a match of joy is if this guy would finally claim you. We ask you though: How long can you stay in a situation like that… realistically?

We boast about labels, we spend loads of cash on labels, and we want to be wives or husbands, but we don’t want to put a label or definition on our relationships? How do you place value on something with no pre-determined value? We talk about where we all need to be to avoid the situationship situation and develop substantial relationships with substance.

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The HerCastle Girls.