How You See…You.

As long as you know who you are and what makes you happy, it doesn’t matter how others see you. LIVE YOUR LIFE AND LIVE IT WELL.

Don’t you wish that the same confidence you have when you’re in your safe place was just as strong as when you’re out amongst other people? Yeah, I know how you feel. In our minds, we all feel that people will understand us, they’ll get our message, and they’ll naturally see who we are. Unfortunately, that’s not how things work.

So now that we know that not everyone will understand you, not everyone will see you for who you are, we can live freely. It really doesn’t matter what people think about you, that’s between them and themselves. If you’re living your life and making a positive impact on yourself and others, that’s what matters. You are here to live… not to please everyone.

People-pleasing is a deadly thing. Car and I did a whole video on people-pleasing, I’ll insert it here.

It’s such a deadly thing because you’re holding your true self hostage, you are burring yourself to become something you’re not because you’re afraid of the rejection you might receive for being you. Rejection is part of life. You can pretend to be someone else for a while, it may last for a moment but as my dad always says “you’re going to have to come up for air sooner or later”. You have no idea how unique and special you are, and how many natural gifts you can share with the world. How many people have overlooked you or how many missed opportunities have happened because you were pretending to be somebody else when you could have been living in your natural state. See that’s the thing, we always think we’re not good enough, meanwhile, a major company wants to work with someone who is exactly like you. The guy who you think wants a bad b is actually looking for someone like you. The girl who you think wants a David Beckham or a Michael B Jordan look-alike, is actually looking for someone like you.

Living a life of freedom is so easy because you’re living for yourself. We have one life, let’s not spend it pleasing people who do not care for us or pay our bills or edify us in any way.

Watch the video if you haven’t done so already, I hope it helps.

Let go of what others think of you to experience a life of love and freedom.


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