Sometimes…You’re The Problem.

I know it’s something that no one really want’s to hear, but it’s true. Sometimes… you’re the problem.

The Faster you become aware of your bad habits and toxic traits, the sooner you can fix them and start being a blessing instead of a curse. You owe it to yourself to become a better version of yourself.

I know that for myself these days, I am better at noticing when my “Past self” tries to rise up. I was that girl. Going to 100 all the time for the silliest things, blaming other people for any misfortune that may have occurred in my life. I always thought I would grow out of it but alas… It got worse. I finally got the message that I was the problem and in order to make my life better and bring peace and joy, I had to fix the issues that I was carrying deep inside of me.

I’m not perfect, no one is. I’m a better person now than before because I’m now aware of who I am and what I need to do to stay in my happy place. Is it always happy? No. When issues come up these days, I stop and think, I assess what’s happened, what my role was in it, and whether there’s a way to fix it. If there is, I will most defiantly fix it. If there is no way for me to be able to solve the problem…I let it go and trust the universe to do what needs to be done.

It’s never easy admitting the problem, but it’s refreshing to know that you can fix it. You don’t have to live being “That Person”. It’s so funny when I look back on how I used to be and the foolishness I used to display I laugh at myself lol, I’m over that version of me now and love the peace that I bring to others and especially to myself.

At the end of the day, that should be what all humans want; peace in their life, for others and most importantly, for themselves.

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Stay Bright & Fashionable,

Telly HerCastle.